This feels like an opinion piece on why we should keep secrets from our partners. She claims her views are feminist but it seems to just be a new type of misogyny, claiming women have power in how they are socialized to better communicate their feelings (true) and should give their male partners a pass and understand men express those same feelings in bed (yikes).

I appreciate a nontraditional take (hence 2 stars instead of 1), but the author seems to have her own deep-seated fear of intimacy coloring the pages and there is little to no evidence to back up her advice.